Lesson 188: て やまない・ずには おかない・を 禁じ得ない・に 堪えない
N1 · Lesson 188 · 18 min — Say your strongest feelings in formal Japanese: the night before the results, wishing under the tree!
Last lesson, Grandpa ignored everyone's worries and visited the tree every day. The ward council's final hearing has now ended too. In this lesson you learn four formal ways to express strong feelings: て やまない (sincerely ~), ずには おかない (I will surely ~ / it is sure to ~), を 禁じ得ない (can't help ~), and に 堪えない (can't bear to ~ / deeply ~). Read the comic first!
After this lesson, you can:
- Use て やまない for "sincerely ~ / ~ without end": 無事を 願って やまない
- Use ずには おかない for "I will surely ~ / it is sure to (make people) ~": 伝えずには おかない
- Use を 禁じ得ない for "can't help ~ (a feeling wells up)": 涙を 禁じ得ない
- Use に 堪えない for "can't bear to ~" and "deeply ~ (grateful)": 見るに 堪えない / 感謝に 堪えません
Eve of the Results
The final hearing is over; results come tomorrow. Rin and Grandpa go to the fenced-in tree... (無事 = safe, 柵 = fence, 堪える = bear, 伝える = convey, 禁じる = hold back; sign in panel 2: 立入禁止 = no entry)
て やまない = sincerely ~; ずには おかない = I will surely ~ / is sure to ~; を 禁じ得ない = can't help ~; に 堪えない = can't bear to ~ / deeply ~. (Note: Neko-sensei's "空腹も 禁じ得ません" is an intentional joke, and it is wrong! Hunger is not a feeling. Put a feeling noun before it, like 涙, 同情 or 驚き.) Tomorrow, the news at last...
Words for this lesson: strong feelings
- 〜て やまない (te yamanai): sincerely ~, ~ without end (a strong feeling that keeps going)
- 〜ずには おかない (zu ni wa okanai): I will surely ~; is sure to (make people) ~
- 〜を 禁じ得ない (o kinjienai): can't help ~ (a feeling wells up)
- 〜に 堪えない (ni taenai): can't bear to ~; deeply ~
- 堪える (taeru): to withstand; to be worth ~
- 禁じる (kinjiru): to forbid; to hold back
- 立入禁止 (tachiiri kinshi): no entry
- 願う (negau): to wish, to hope
- 祈る (inoru): to pray, to wish well
- 愛する (aisuru): to love, to love deeply
- 無事 (buji): safe and sound
- 柵 (saku): fence
- つぼみ (tsubomi): bud
- 伝える (tsutaeru): to convey, to pass on
- 空腹 (kūfuku): hunger, an empty stomach
- 同情・怒り (dōjō, ikari): sympathy, anger (feeling nouns)
- 平和 (heiwa): peace
- 再会 (saikai): reunion
- 解決 (kaiketsu): solution
- 突然 (totsuzen): suddenly
- 現場 (genba): the scene, the site
- 感激 (kangeki): deep gratitude, strong emotion
- 鑑賞 (kanshō): appreciation (of a work)
- 悪口 (waruguchi): bad-mouthing, insults
Grammar 1 / 4: て やまない
V-te form + やまない: a strong feeling in the speaker (a wish, hope or love) keeps going and never stops = sincerely ~, ~ without end. 木の 無事を 願って やまない = I sincerely pray the tree is safe.
- Form: V-te form + やまない: 願う becomes 願って やまない; 期待する becomes 期待して やまない. The polite form is やみません.
- Meaning: sincerely ~, ~ without end: A strong feeling that has lasted from the past until now. It is not a passing mood. It is a long, heartfelt wish.
- Feeling verbs only: Most common: 願う, 祈る, 期待する, 愛する (also 信じる (believe), 尊敬する (respect), 憧れる (long for), and so on). Ordinary actions like eat, walk or read cannot be used.
- Formal situations: Use it in speeches, the end of letters and writing. When you chat with friends and say "I really hope ~", the 〜て ほしい or 〜たい you already know is enough.
- 平和を 願って やまない。 — I sincerely pray for peace.
- みなさまの ご健康を 祈って やみません。 — I sincerely wish you all good health. (end of a letter)
- おじいさんは この 町を 愛して やまない。 — Grandpa loves this town deeply.
- リンの 成功を 期待して やみません。 — I sincerely look forward to Rin's success.
- 二人の 再会を 願って やまない。 — I sincerely pray the two can meet again.
Grammar 2 / 4: ずには おかない
V-ない form (〜ない becomes 〜ず; する becomes せず) + には おかない = "I won't stop until ~". (1) The speaker's strong resolve: 伝えずには おかない = I will surely convey it. (2) The power of something inevitably causes a reaction: 見る 人を 泣かせずには おかない = it is sure to make viewers cry.
- Form: V-ない form (ない becomes ず) + には おかない: 伝えない becomes 伝えず; 泣かせない becomes 泣かせず. する becomes せず (not しず): 解決せずには おかない.
- Meaning 1: I will surely ~ (resolve): The speaker's active, firm resolve: この 問題は 必ず 解決せずには おかない (I will surely solve this problem). Used in writing and formal statements.
- Meaning 2: is sure to cause ~: The subject is often a work, words or an event. Often paired with the causative: 人を 〜させずには おかない = is sure to make people ~.
- Don't mix it up with ずには いられない: ずには いられない = "I" can't help ~ing. ずには おかない = "I" will surely ~, or (an outside force) is sure to make someone ~.
- この 映画は 見る 人を 泣かせずには おかない。 — This movie is sure to make viewers cry.
- 彼の スピーチは 聞く 人を 感動させずには おかない。 — His speech is sure to move the listeners.
- この 思いを、必ず 区長に 伝えずには おかない。 — I will surely convey these feelings to the ward mayor.
- 事故の 原因は、必ず 調べずには おかない。 — I will find out the cause of the accident, no matter what.
- その 一言は、みんなを 笑わせずには おかなかった。 — Those words made everyone burst out laughing.
Grammar 3 / 4: を 禁じ得ない
N (feeling) + を 禁じ得ない: you see a situation and a feeling rises in your heart that you can't hold back = can't help ~. 涙を 禁じ得ない = can't hold back tears.
- Form: N + を 禁じ得ない: Polite form: 禁じ得ません; past: 禁じ得なかった. A noun always comes before it, with the particle を.
- Put a feeling noun before it: Most common: 涙, 同情, 驚き, 怒り, 笑い. Food, objects and body states like hunger cannot be used.
- Mark the cause with 「〜に(は)」: その 話には 涙を 禁じ得ない = hearing that story, I can't hold back tears.
- Very formal, written style: Use it in news, reviews and formal speeches. To a friend, just say 泣きそう! (I'm about to cry!).
- その 話には 涙を 禁じ得ない。 — Hearing that story, I can't hold back tears.
- 突然の 閉店に、驚きを 禁じ得なかった。 — The shop suddenly closed, and I couldn't help being shocked.
- 約束を 守らない 人には、怒りを 禁じ得ない。 — Toward people who break their promises, I can't help feeling anger.
- 五十年も 待った 二人には、同情を 禁じ得ない。 — For the two who waited fifty years, I can't help feeling sympathy.
- 先生の 失敗には、笑いを 禁じ得なかった。 — Seeing the teacher embarrassed, I couldn't help laughing.
Grammar 4 / 4: に 堪えない
(1) V dictionary form (見る, 聞く) + に 堪えない = so bad or painful that you can't bear to ~: 見るに 堪えない = can't bear to look. (2) N (感謝, 感激) + に 堪えない = deeply ~, ~ beyond words. The positive に 堪える = can withstand ~, is worth ~.
- (1) V dictionary form + に 堪えない: can't bear to ~: Most common with 見る, 聞く, 読む. The thing is so bad, so tragic or so awful that you can't bear to ~ it.
- (2) N + に 堪えない: deeply ~: With feeling nouns like 感謝 and 感激: the feeling is at its limit = deeply ~, ~ beyond words. Extremely formal; used in speeches and letters.
- (3) Positive: に 堪える = worth ~: 鑑賞に 堪える (worth appreciating), 読むに 堪える (worth reading): the quality passes the test.
- Reading, writing and nuance: 堪える is read たえる. It is also often written 耐える (same sound, same meaning), and 見るに 耐えない is common too. The "deeply ~" use, like 感謝に 堪えない, is usually written with 堪える. All three uses are very formal. To a friend, just say ひどすぎて 見られない (it's too awful to watch).
- 事故の 現場は、見るに 堪えなかった。 — The scene of the accident was too terrible to look at.
- この 歌は 下手すぎて、聞くに 堪えない。 — This song is sung so badly that I can't bear to listen.
- 温かい お言葉を いただき、感激に 堪えません。 — For your warm words, I am deeply grateful.
- みなさまの ご協力、感謝に 堪えません。 — For everyone's help, I am deeply grateful.
- この 町の 古い 写真は、今でも 鑑賞に 堪える。 — The old photos of this town are still worth looking at today.